Surely over time you have had less inspired gifts. You realize now that there are things that simply cannot be considered appropriate to be given as a gift. In the rush for perfection, originality or especially in the rush to tick off as quickly as possible this mission of choosing a gift, we actually omit what it represents.
In some cultures, there are very well-defined aspects of tradition regarding the symbolism of some gifts. Therefore, a starting point when choosing the appropriate object has in mind that list of exceptions and unwritten rules.
Here is what you should not give someone as a gift and why:
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Mirror
Maybe the superstition related to the unlucky years in case it breaks has a contribution here. It is considered that a mirror offered as a gift portends unpleasantness. Others would correlate the idea with self-care, of the image one displays in public. Anyway, it's better to cross such an idea off the list.
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Ceramic figurines representing birds
The trinkets of the past have changed their status, they are no longer popular, but the ceramic figurines can still be seen among the photo frames that sit in libraries or on shelves, on the fireplace or wherever there is a place to be exposed. If it's an elephant, you make a good choice, with only one condition - let it be one with its trunk up. It means good luck.
On the other hand, figurines of this kind that represent birds bring unrest in a house.
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House slippers
You will find them in stores in different shapes, colors and sizes. Not only will you be spoiled by the correct size, but from the point of view of the house slippers symbol, they portend illness. Especially the white ones are correlated with unpleasant ideas related to the health of the one who will wear them. Besides, they are personal choices, you would have no reason to buy such a gift.
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Amber jewelry
It is said about these that they are a symbol of separation, and about pearls that they are the very tears that the wearer will shed. A sign of sadness, in whatever form they may be, such accessories remain in a cone of shadow when you have to choose a gift. If you reach this category of objects, then it is preferable to talk about things made by hand or the expensive ones, made of precious metals.
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Animals
They say that donating an animal or a plant must come with payment. Otherwise, they will not find their place with each other - the animal and the master. Out of superstition, when you receive a baby animal you can make a symbolic payment, i.e. an insignificant amount of money.
The list of less inspired gifts also includes other options: underwear, towels, knitted things or personal care products.
What you choose and when
Maybe it's not when you think about the recipient that it's hard to find a gift idea, but in the middle there are other milestones - what message you send, what kind of friendship you have with the person in question, what budget you have, which it is the opportunity and many others. It seems like an infinite number of aspects that you have to take into account. That's why we have prepared product selections by category for you.
For him, classic gifts can be watches, car accessories or office items, not just decorative, but really practical. Check also the list of usb gifts or our selection of wines.
For her we rely on sophisticated gifts, from jewelry to sets, gift baskets, watches or wallets. Discover some interesting ideas of objects for her purse.
For friends, buddies, co-workers or bosses, you will also discover on our page ideas that will inspire you. Thematic gifts will narrow your list of options, opting for something specific to the occasion.
Don't forget that it's not only about choosing an object, but about the art of giving, of bringing happiness to the face of your recipient.
